Haven't updated my spaces for a quite long time.

Seems I have just went on the shuttle bus wearing gloves prepared by granny, but half year have silently passed, and it's hot summer now.

Seems I have never got time to ponder a while, and neaten the mood up, I am not enthusiastic any more, and just doing things to keep the deadlines.

Quite happy and relaxed whenever I am with anata. Sitting behind on the bike and hug him closely among the crowded street, along the sequestered trails near the West Lake, or on the silent and wide road late in the night, I felt I was the only girl in the world, wishing the monent would last forever.

But the fact is that I don't even have a small house here, I won't be dreaming it brand new or spacious, only a place of mine is enough. Where's our luck of 5 million?

I was once so excited about my current job, as I am on the right platform to be an enterprising woman. I woke up very early to be the first in the office, I worked over-time to make a more beautiful and professional quotation sheet, I made suggestions to the boss for better work efficiency, but all seems nonsense. I tried to speak up my thought, but no one seems really cared. All things concerning foreign trade are the last one, or denied. Yes, I understand, 99% of the market is in the domestic. 

 

 

1.Excellence is a habit
　　这句话是古希腊哲学家亚里士多德说的。如果说优秀是一种习惯，那么懒惰也是一种习惯。人出生的时候，除了脾气会因为天性而有所不同，其他的东西基本都是后天形成的，是家庭影响和教育的结果。所以，我们的一言一行都是日积月累养成的习惯。我们有的人形成了很好的习惯，有的人形成了很坏的习惯。所以我们从现在起就要把优秀变成一种习惯，使我们的优秀行为习以为常，变成我们的第二天性。让我们习惯性地去创造性思考，习惯性地去认真做事情，习惯性地对别人友好，习惯性地欣赏大自然。
　　注解：要会“装”，要持续的、不间断的“装”，装久了就成了真的了，就成了习惯了，比如准时到会，每次都按时到会，你装装看，你装30年看看，装的时间长了就形成了习惯。
2.Life is a course of experiences

　　事情的结果尽管重要，但是做事情的过程更加重要，因为结果好了我们会更加快乐，但过程使我们的生命充实。
　　人的生命最后的结果一定是死亡，我们不能因此说我们的生命没有意义。世界上很少有永恒。大学生谈恋爱，每天都在信誓旦旦地说我会爱你一辈子，这实际上是不真实的。统计数据表明，大学生谈恋爱的100对里有90对最后会分手，最后结婚了的还有一半会离婚。你说爱情能永恒吗？所以最真实的说法是：“我今天，此时此刻正在真心地爱着你。”明天也许你会失恋，失恋后我们会体验到失恋的痛苦。这种体验也是丰富你生命的一个过程。
　　注解：生命本身其实是没有任何意义的，只是你自己赋予你的生命一种你希望实现的意义，因此享受生命的过程就是一种意义所在。
3.The shortest distance between two points is not always the straight line.
　　在人与人的关系以及做事情的过程中，我们很难直截了当就把事情做好。我们有时需要等待，有时需要合作，有时需要技巧。我们做事情会碰到很多困难和障碍，有时候我们并不一定要硬挺、硬冲，我们可以选择有困难绕过去，有障碍绕过去，也许这样做事情更加顺利。大家想一想，我们和别人说话还得想想哪句话更好听呢。尤其在中国这个比较复杂的社会中，大家要学会想办法谅解别人，要让人觉得你这个人很成熟，很不错，你才能把事情做成。
　　注解：如果你在考数学试题，一定要答两点之间直线段最短，如果你在走路，从A到B，明明可以直接过去，但所以人都不走，你最好别走，因为有陷阱。在中国办事情，直线性思维在很多地方要碰壁，这是中国特色的中国处事智慧。
4.Only those who stops knows how to speed　
　　我在滑雪的时候，最大的体会就是停不下来。我刚开始学滑雪时没有请教练，看着别人滑雪，觉得很容易，不就是从山顶滑到山下吗？于是我穿上滑雪板，哧溜一下就滑下去了，结果我从山顶滑到山下，实际上是滚到山下，摔了很多个跟斗。我发现根本就不知道怎么停止、怎么保持平衡。最后我反复练习怎么在雪地上、斜坡上停下来。练了一个星期，我终于学会了在任何坡上停止、滑行、再停止。这个时候我就发现自己会滑雪了，就敢从山顶高速地往山坡下冲。因为我知道只要我想停，一转身就能停下来。只要你能停下来，你就不会撞上树、撞上石头、撞上人，你就不会被撞死。因此，只有知道如何停止的人，才知道如何高速前进。
　　注解：用汽车来比喻，宝马可以上200公里，奇瑞却只能上120公里，为什么？发动机估计不相上下，差距在刹车系统，上了200公里刹不了车，呵呵，我的天！
5.Quit, wise up action; imperfection, boon of the God
　　当你拥有六个苹果的时候，千万不要把它们都吃掉，因为你把六个苹果全都吃掉，你也只吃到了六个苹果，只吃到了一种味道，那就是苹果的味道。如果你把六个苹果中的五个拿出来给别人吃，尽管表面上你丢了五个苹果，但实际上你却得到了其他五个人的友情和好感。以后你还能得到更多，当别人有了别的水果的时候，也一定会和你分享，你会从这个人手里得到一个橘子，那个人手里得到一个梨，最后你可能就得到了六种不同的水果，六种不同的味道，六种不同的颜色，六个人的友谊。人一定要学会用你拥有的东西去换取对你来说更加重要和丰富的东西。所以说，放弃是一种智慧。
　　注解：我的个人原则是：每一次放弃都必须是一次升华，否则就不要放弃；每一次选择都必须是一次升华，否则不要选择。
　　做人最大的乐趣在于通过奋斗去获得我们想要的东西，所以有缺点意味着我们可以进一步完美，有匮乏之处意味着我们可以进一步努力。美国有一部电视片，讲的是一位富翁给后代留下了用不尽的遗产，结果他的后代全都变成了吸毒的、自杀的、进监狱的，或者精神病患者。为什么会这样呢？因为这位富翁给自己后代留下的钱太多了，以致他们不需要劳动就可以继承一大笔财产。继承一大笔财富，就几乎什么都能买到。所以，当一个人什么都不缺的时候，他的生存空间就被剥夺掉了。如果我们每天早上醒过来，感到自己今天缺点儿什么，感到自己还需要更加完美，感到自己还有追求，那是一件多么值得高兴的事情啊！

Still remember that noon when I stayed in the shop and wait for Yu to log in. A prophet came and told me he's actually doing some charity work for the poor in the community. Learning from my face, he said I am going to have lucky and beautiful days from 2007, after the most stumbling years of 2004 and 2005.

Suspiciously, I took what the prophet said, but I should believe that all is going to be true, as I have experienced great joy since I came back. Every day is a beautiful day with our cross talk. I used to do everything singularly, and put too much on my shoulders, but it is totally different now. We share same cup of pearl milk tea, we enjoy same moving songs together, we jammed on one seat of a crowded bus, and most of all, we share our thoughts. Every little happiness doubled while sorrow halved, well knowing the shape of our hearts.

"Intimacy lies in the closeness of our hearts, but not the physical concept of time or space." As you have always told me so, I believe that you are the right one I am looking for, who's both a fast friend and dear lover, and our relationship will remain and grow each time our hearts touch.

Isn't it fate that you appeared in my dreams again many years after that inexplicable dream? How glad and grateful I am that you give me ease and comfort lying in your arms, and make me forget about the experience of being stranded on the shore! You're my raft in the tide, and I would be your harbor in the storms. This is more than amazing, right?

I really hate to leave you and live without your hugs. A part of me will always be with you, my dear, and every time I breathe, I'll take you in. No matter how far apart we are, I swear by the moon and stars in the sky that I'll always be here for you, better or worse.

Remember, dear? Once I told you that I admire old couples much walking hand in hand. Like a romantic plot in a fair tale, it impresses me most, even strolling along the picturesque West Lake. It's a pity that we are millions away from each other, and it quite upsets me wandering alone in the bustling city of this exotic country. Yet life is not so miserable at all. We should count ourselves lucky instead to be connected with a strong mental faith rather than something fragile. What a bliss that would be sitting side by side in the sunset and still calling each sweatheart when we are both old and gray.

 

Already doing a second job in Hangzhou, but I never told Dad or Mom about that. I don't want them to worry anything about me. A job with stable and reasonable incomes, while not much responsibility has to be taken of, is a most ideal one from their point of view.

However, this second job failed to live up to my expectations. As a matter of fact, things I was doing are quite mechanical, no personal effort needed at all. And I was clearly told by the up notch that I am going to be in the same position within three years, or even forever. Oh, my, this is no way to change many spectacular experiences with the damn high welfare they promised. I'd rather fly without wings.

A friend with Alibaba is very kind-hearted, he suggested work in a newly-found textile factory located in the economic development zone in Jiaxing city. According to him, the plantform there is perfect for person like me who's capable of creating that somthing and still willing to be very dedicated. OK, I go, the worst would be I drifted along, but probably, I will easily sail through and find myself more confident and independent some day.

But reality is always far different, the moment I stepped off the taxi I smelt a same familar odor from a chemicals factory nearby. And there are virtually no people in the office, except labours in the working shops. And on the first evening in the industrial zone, I got robbed of my new mobile phone, making me totally isolated from the world. Fortunately, I remember one number, my home number.

"We are all the more trying to reach you, but..."

"Will you like to go to Dubai? I know a job as a translator and sales girl..."

I was so carried away with tears when hearing Dad's voice.

Why not? As long as I am supported, especially by you.

Dubai can be a very good experience, I am sure.

Watch me fly even without wings!

 

 

Fisrt applied to the position of sales person, but the human resources manager said that even buddies who do the packing job in the sampling room also contribute in the foreign trade business, and can also be called as a sales person. OK, liaison work between foreign customers and people in product departments. Being the biggest in the industry in the city, the whole operation is divided into as many part as possible in the company. 3 big big showrooms, dozens of booths in the Canton Fair every year, impressed by the huge sales scale, I began to work in the assembly line.

Actually, this job suits much for a married woman who denies ups and downs in life, but not me.

1 自我认知
穷人：很少想到如何去赚钱和如何才能赚到钱，认为自己一辈子就该这样，不相信会有什么改变。

富人：骨子里就深信自己生下来不是要做穷人，而是要做富人，他有强烈的赚钱意识,这也是他血液里的东西，他会想尽一切办法使自己致富。

2 休闲
穷人：在家看电视，为肥皂剧的剧情感动得痛苦流涕，还要仿照电视里的时尚来武装自己。

富人：在外跑市场，即使打高耳夫球也不忘带着项目合同。

3 交际圈子
穷人：喜欢走穷亲戚，穷人的圈子大多是穷人，也排斥与富人交往，久而久之，心态成了穷人的心态，思维成了穷人的思维，做出来的是也就是穷人的模式。大家每天谈论着打折商品，交流着节约技巧，虽然有利于训练生存能利,但你的眼界也就渐渐囿于这样的琐事，而将雄心壮志消磨掉了。

富人：结交比自己有成就的人，不可否认，确实从中获益良多。

4 学习
穷人：学手艺

富人：学管理

5 时间
穷人：一个享受充裕时间的人不可能赚大钱，要想悠闲轻松就会失去更多赚钱的机会。穷人的时间是不值钱的，有时甚至多余，不知道怎么打发，怎么混起来不烦，如果你可以因为买一斤白菜多花了一分钱而气恼不已，却不为虚度一天而心痛，这就是典型的穷人思维。

富人：一个人无论以何种方式赚钱，也无论钱挣得是多还是少，都必须经过时间的积淀.富人的玩也是一种工作方式，是有目的的。富人的闲，闲在身体，修身养性，以利再战，脑袋一刻也没有闲着，穷人的闲，闲在思想，他手脚都在忙，忙着去麻将桌上多摸几把。

6 归属感
穷人：是颗螺丝钉。穷人以为出身卑微，缺少安全感，就迫切地希望自己从属于并依赖于一个团体，于是他们以这个团体的标准为自己的标准，让自己的一切合乎规范，为团体的利益而工作，奔波，甚至迁徙.对于穷人来说，在一个著名的企业里稳定的工作几十年，由实习生一直干到高级主管,那简直是美得不能在美的理想。

富人：那些团体的领导者通常都是富人，他们总是一方面向穷人灌输：团结就是力量，如果你不从属于自己的团体，你就什么都不是，一名不文.但另一方面，他们却从来没有停止过招兵买马，培养新人，以便随时可以把你替换掉。

7 投资及对待财富
穷人：经济观点就是少用等于多赚，比如开一家面馆，收益率是100%，投入2万，一年就净赚2万，对于穷人来说很不错了。穷人即使有钱，也舍不得拿出来，即使终于下定决心投资，也不愿意冒风险，最终还是走不出那一步。穷人最津津乐道的就是鸡生蛋，蛋生鸡，一本万利......但是建筑在一只母鸡身上的希望，毕竟是那样的脆弱。

富人：富人的出发点是万本万利。同样的开面馆，富人们会想，一家面馆承载的资本只有2万，如果有一亿资金，岂不是要开5000家面馆？要一个一个管理好，大老板得操多少心，累白多少根头发呀？还不如投资宾馆，一个宾馆就足以消化全部的资本，哪怕收益率只有20%，一年下来也有2000万利润啊。

8 激情:能不能干成事,首先要看有没有激情
穷人：没有激情。他总是按部就班，很难出大错，也绝对不会做到最好。没有激情就无法兴奋，就不可能全心全意投入工作。大部分的穷人不能说没有激情，看他的激情总是消耗在太具体的事情上：上司表扬了，他会激动; 商店打折，他会激动; 电视里破镜重圆了，他的眼泪一串一串往下流，穷人有的只是这种情绪。

富人：“燕雀安知鸿鹄之志?““王侯将相,宁有种乎?”有这样的激情，穷人终将不是穷人！激情是一种天性，是生命力的象征，有了激情才有了灵感的火花，才有了鲜明的个性，才有了人际关系中的强烈感染力，也才有了解决问题的魄力和方法。

9 自信
穷人：穷人的自信要通过武装到牙齿，要通过一身高级名牌的穿戴和豪华的配置才能给他们带来更多的自信，穷人的自信往往不是发自内心和自然天成的。

富人：李嘉成在谈到他的经营秘诀时说：“其实也没什么特别的，光景好时，决不过分乐观; 光景不好时，也不过度悲观。其实就是一种富人特有的自信。自信才能不被外力所左右，自信才可能有正确的决定。

10 习惯
穷人：有个故事，一个富人送给穷人一头牛。穷人满怀希望开始奋斗。可牛要吃草，人要吃饭，日子难过。穷人于是把牛卖了，买了几只羊，吃了一只，剩下来的用来生小羊。可小羊迟迟没有生出来，日子有艰难了。穷人把羊卖了，买成了鸡，想让鸡生蛋赚钱为生，但是日子并没有改变，最后穷人把鸡也杀了，穷人的理想彻底崩溃了，这就是穷人的习惯。

富人：根据一个投资专家说，富人成功的秘诀就是：没钱时，不管多困难，也不要动用投资和储蓄，压力会使你找到赚钱的新方法，帮你还清帐单，这是个好习惯。性格决定了习惯，习惯决定了成功。

11 上网
穷人：去SINA/163/SOHU/上网聊天，穷人聊天，一是穷人时间多，二是穷人的嘴天生就不能闲着。富人讲究荣辱不惊,温柔敦厚，那叫涵养，有涵养才能树大根深，穷人就顾不了那么多，成天受着别人的白眼，浑身沾满了鸡毛蒜皮，多少窝囊气啊，说说都不行?聊天有理!

富人：去ICXO.COM上网找投资机会。富人上网，更多的是利用网络的低成本高效率，寻找更多的投资机会和项目，把便利运用到自己的生意中来。

12 消费花钱
穷人：买名牌是为了体验满足感，最喜欢试验刚出来的流行时尚产品，相信贵的必然是好的。

富人：买名牌是为了节省挑选细节的时间，与消费品的售价相比，他们更在乎产品的质量，比如会买15元的纯棉T恤，也不会买昂贵的莱卡制品。

Another day for the lovers this year,should be cherished, as it is once in 38 years, and should be grateful that God gives us such great chance to express love. We can't deny that people easily become pissed off and forget to be always nice and kind.
Hangzhou, where you can feel romance every day in every corner of the city, is well under the atmosphere of love and caring created by the over 400 hundred digital bus stop board broadcasting all kinds of sweet and affecting words. Everyone in this city today will probably have a surprise from their special someone. I am expecting, too, .
Being the most enchanting city on earth, as professed by Marco Polo, Hangzhou definitely lives up to be a celestial city with rich culture heritage and picturesque landscapes. People, especially the natives, are greatly blessed.

Love story is a classic song with beautiful lyrics,which surely fits this occasion well.

where do i begin
to tell a story of how great a love can be
the sweet love story that is older than the sea
the simple truth about the love she brings to me
where do i start
with her first hello
she gave a meaning to this empty world of mine
there'd never be another love
another time
she came into my life and made the living fine
she fills my heart,
she fills my heart with very special things
with angel songs,
with wild imaginings
she fills my soul with so much love
that anywhere i go
i'm never lonely.
with her along who could be lonely
i reach for her hand
it's always there
how long does it last
can love be measured by the hours in a day
i have no answers now but this much i can say:
i know i'll need her till the stars all burn away
and she'll be there

Already tired and sleepy now,too much work in the office, kinda suffocated, no, it is not, everyone in the office is very dedicated. Oh, yes, also because of the high-heeled sandal.

It was 8 pm when back in the living place, I can't call it home, as there is no aroma from the kitchen, no feeling of relaxation with my roommate's loud chatting voice from the bedroom, nothing else but a place to sleep in.

Much has happened during this period of time. Maybe I have really got myself stressed out, as little uglies in our face are acting up,maybe not yet, the high temperature should take the blame, as I have always believed that I am much stronger and perseverant than most of the people around.

Last day in July, also the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, the Chinese Valentine's Day, when Niu Lang (a poor orphan cowherd) and Zhi Nu (the seventh daughter of queen of heaven) meet on the bridge of magpie across the milky way.

Eternal love between us two

Shall withstand the time apart?

Faith and emotional liaison, physical attraction and desire, which one really gets the upper hand in the hustle and bustle life? Too much things lead me to question the purpose of finding a life companion.

What if a girl can always burst into tears when hearing his voice from the other part of the world or feeling any trace about him, though the boy left her for three years. True love?

Inevitably, there is always too much that shades the brightness, but just as what you are told, be courageous, you are the best of the best!

And pls remember, attitude decides all!

 

Hi, tomorrow is your birthday, and also the weekend!

I find you are not in mood these days. Pls grasp every monent you can to discover the beauty  in life and don't be stingy with your smiles. You know there is no shortage of pleasantness in our lives.

Meanwhile, I'd like very much to thank you for cheering me up when I was down. You are truly one of those few patient and  kind-hearted guys. Apart from all these good traits, your diligence and perseverance will surely lead you to the right place. So just smile and go ahead!

And tomorrow I am go traveling, wish me a very good time!

Captured by the beauty of West Lake long since I was a child, I dreamed of living in Hangzhou one day. Though green hills and ocean bays make my home town a nice place for living,I long for a life with a different feeling.

Having my college in Shaoxing is a great experience for me, as Shaoxing is like a history book, a graceful and quiet girl, I can always find something that touches me deep down to my heart. But I would hear that Hangzhou shades Shaoxing in many aspects, my eagerness to embrace Hangzhou grew. 

Strongly requested by my family, I worked in Taizhou after graduation. Nevertheless, my attachment to cities like Hangzhou and Shanghai never die.

The factory I previous worked in fails to fully satisfy me both in its natural environment and corporate culture, therefore, I quit. After the Spring Festival, I started to pursue my dreams again,if can be so called , and I finally chose Hangzhou.

Now I am here in Hangzhou!

Finding a job with good opportunities and salary is no easy thing in a totally new city with competitions everywhere. However, I have to give myself a try with different job responsibilities in a whole new industry.

And now I am taking a totally fresh life, but actually much harder. I get up early to catch the bus, return late in the evening, exhausted, and spend time preparing meal. And chores, oh, my god, tell me, is this the life I was dreaming about?

But Thelma, don't forget, extraordinary is amid those of ordinary. Just ignore the unpleasantness, this is definitely common.

Now here in Hangzhou, I am absolutely in control of my own life. Be brave and enjoy life to your full, be it good or bad.

Be your own queen!

 

 

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1 ...God won't ask what kind of car you drove;
     He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.
 
2...God won't ask the square footage of your house,
     He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
 
3...God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet,
     He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.
 
4...God won't ask what your highest salary was,
     He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.
 
5...God won't ask what your job title was,

     He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.
 
6...God won't ask how many friends you had,
    He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.
 
7... God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived,

      He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.
 
8...God won't ask about the color of your skin,
     He'll ask about the content of your character.
 
9... God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation,
     He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.
 
10...God won't ask how many people you forwarded this to,
     He'll ask if you were ashamed to pass it on to your friends. 
  
  
                         Read Carefully 
  
               Happy moments,  praise God. 
               Difficult moments,  seek God. 
               Quiet moments,  worship God. 
               Painful moments,  trust God. 

                       Every moment,  thank God.

 

The man is worthy of the girl

Sb's going to kill me

The wallpaper kills the furniture

Feed a stove with coal

They posed and smile for the cameraman

I want to come at the truth

Jack is a man of few words

Don't bother me with such trifles

I have decided to save money on closing

Tomorrow's the deadline for choosing classes

A little insurance never hurt

This class is gonna be a bear

Can I see your notes a sec?

Maybe you could have another go at that

Doing sth is no fun

Is there a standard format?

I appreciate your time

When is our homework due?

Her class is so boring that I can't help dozing off

These books are one week overdue

How did you do on your final exam?

I'll keep it to myself

Exams used to be like a burden weighing heavily upon our minds

Students' wisdom and ability are put into full play

It's by no means easy

What you say has cleared up my confusions

I can never think quickly to allocate my time properly

Where are you heading for?

It has great significant on Taiwan's return to the motherkand

What do you complaint of?

Are your bowel acting prperly?

I'm in bad shape

I have a mild/bad cold

The fever won't go away

I feel dizzy/light-headed

My head reels/swims

T've kept getting a roaming in my ears and giddiness

I have a sore throat

I cough up phlegm

I have diarrhea/loose bowels/the runs

What;s the base of this soup?

Is this for here or to go?

To our friendship and health

I'm light drinker

I've been wearing this hairstyle for so long that I want to change it this time

the color is a little too dark/loud for me

That style is very flattering on you

He can't help having big ears

The price is absurd/too expensive

This is the lowest price, we can not go any low

You drive a hard bargain

get a refund on sth

Time to call quits

That's exactly my point

They're through with each other

My washing has really piled up

Thank you for the invitation, but I have to take a rain check

Every coin has two sides

I was really sick of the same old bunch all the time

The same old story again

I had a total blast there

We must attend to it immediately

I'm very thirsty, a cold glass of lemonade would hit the spot right now

God only helps those who help themselves

I've had it with this job

That's not much in my line

You may put it that way if you like

Happy time really flies

It's a deal

We got soaked through

I can't help shedding tears

Are you doing anything special this evening

The film has evoked general approval

Is that film still running

所以要厚积薄发，创造机会或者寻找机会，总比什么都不做好，总之我在为我自己的梦想而努力，不计较别的！

注意你的思想，它们会变成你的言语；注意你的言语，它们会变成你的行动；注意你的行动，它们会变成你的习惯；注意你的习惯，他们会变成你的性格；注意你的性格，它们会决定你的命运！

人就像房子，朋友就像窗子，窗子越多，房子越亮。我愿是你最大的那扇向阳窗，春送花香，夏送凉风，秋送舒爽，冬送阳光。

妈妈说：要记住哦！这世界上没有一个人值得你为他哭，唯一一个值得你哭的那个人，他永远也不会让你哭。

杯子寂寞，被人倒进了开水，滚烫的感觉，杯子想这就是恋爱的感觉；水变温了，杯子很舒服，想这就是生活是感觉；水变凉了，杯子害怕，也许这就是怕失去；水变得彻底的凉，杯子很难受，想把水倒出，水终于被倒掉，杯子很舒服，但杯子掉到了地上，摔成一片片的，杯子发现每一片上都有水留下的痕迹，难道只有失去才懂得珍惜？只有一切过去才知幸福？好好珍惜现在拥有的。

人生是一道风景，快乐是一种心境，春看桃，夏看柳，秋观菊，冬赏梅。月圆是诗，月缺是画，日上灿烂，日落浪漫。

工作是船，成绩是帆，节日如岸，家似港湾，洗掉征尘，绽开笑脸。醒来是笑，入睡是甜，心随人愿，幸福永远！

生命中有你，感觉精彩，回忆中有你，感觉温馨，旅程中有你感觉骄傲，失落中有你感觉坚毅，沉默中有你感觉灿烂，朋友中有你感觉荣幸。

如果你只像洋葱一样只有就个月的生命，而却想做百年橄榄的话，首先第一步要做的就是相信自己，相信自己就是最棒的，最优秀的。要不然真的就只能象无名小草一样流过这个世界而一事无成了。

累了要好好休息；错了别埋怨自己；苦了是幸福的阶梯；伤了才懂什么是珍惜；醉了就是折磨自己；笑了便忘记曾经哭泣。

　　狗———狗给我们的启示是：不幸的事快快抛开，永远从美好的一面看人生。

　　“不管遭受过如何惨痛的欺凌虐待，狗都很快把痛苦的经历抛于脑后，热烈地享受眼前一刻的生命，细嚼着找到的每一根骨头，或者在公园里快活地奔跑。”

　　猫———猫的处事态度是：随遇而安，从不会为明天担忧。

　　“猫从不为任何事发愁。如果感到焦虑不安，即使只是最轻微的情绪紧张，它都会去睡一觉，让焦虑消失。”

　　鸟———它教导我们要懂得忙里偷闲，享受生命。

　　“即使最忙碌的鸟儿也会经常停下来，停在树枝上歌唱，当然，这可能是雄鸟在求偶或雌鸟在应和。不过，我相信它们大部分时间只是为了生命的存在和活着的喜悦而欢唱。”……

　　这是美国新泽西州著名兽医莫莉对动物的观察所得，因此，她劝告人应该向动物学习———如果想健康长寿的话。

　　“因为不管是家里的猫狗，还是非洲草原上的狮子，它们都拥有以下的共同特点：睡眠充足，肚子饿的时候才进食，永远不会为昨天的事懊悔，也不会为明日的事担忧。如果人类的生活态度像它们一样，必定健康长寿得多。”莫莉说，动物过一天算一天，饮食有节制，想睡觉的时候就睡觉，而且每日都运动。“这正是医生长期以来一直要求我们的事，在这方面，动物比人类优胜得多。”所以，人应向动物学习。这确是一项很有意思的发现，从而进一步开阔了人的视野。人，如果真的能放下人的“架子”和“面子”，而虚心拜动物为师，肯定会活得更开心，更潇洒，更健康，更长寿一些。事实上，发生在人身上的种种有悖健康长寿的“癌细胞”———诸如想不开，心不顺，忧郁、烦恼、失眠、食欲不振……说到底就是没有好好地拜动物为师之故，从而给自己带来许许多多的胡思乱想，贪欲，燥动，以及提心吊胆，等等。当然，向动物学习，不仅仅是为了健康长寿，更在于为了每一天都过得快乐。